5 best nipple creams for breastfeeding

When you start breastfeeding, it’s common for your nipples to become dry and cracked, which can be quite painful. The good news is that your nipples heal very fast, especially if you add some nipple cream. But which is the best nipple cream for breastfeeding?

Based on nipple cream reviews, we’ve put together a list of the top 5 nipple creams for breastfeeding that our community loves. Each one has a rating of at least 4.1 stars out of 5 (click through to each nipple cream page to see the current rating). 

1. Lansinoh Lanolin

Lansinoh’s Lanolin is a 100% natural, single-ingredient, hypoallergenic product to provide relief for breastfeeding mums by soothing nipple soreness after each feeding.

Read Lansinoh Lanolin reviews.

2. Marcalan Nipple Cream

Marcalan Nipple Cream is a naturally derived, soothing, highly purified blend of lanolins for the effective relief of sore and damaged nipples. One reviewer said this worked great but they “would recommend letting it air dry after applying.”

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Read Marcalan Nipple Cream reviews.

3. Medela Purelan Lanolin Cream

Medela’s Purelan lanolin is another great option for helping to soothe cracked nipples while breastfeeding. One reviewer said:  “Good consistency, not sticky, quite thick, no annoying fragrance, gave an instant relief in cracked and sore nipples.”

best nipple creams for breastfeeding

Read Medela Purelan Lanolin Cream reviews

4. GAIA Nipple Balm

A nourishing balm for breastfeeding mothers to moisturise, soothe and protect sore, cracked nipples. GAIA Nipple Balm is lanolin-free and contains organic sunflower oil, organic avocado oil, organic jojoba oil, and organic calendula oil.

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Read GAIA Nipple Balm reviews.  

5. MooGoo Natural Nipple Balm

MooGoo Natural Nipple Balm is another lanolin-free option. Instead, it contains grape seed oil, beeswax, which is edible, and Hops Extract, a natural, antibacterial preservative.

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Best baby products 2022: Tell Me Baby Award winners

We’re delighted to announce the Tell Me Baby 2022 Award Winners!

Unlike many other awards, the Tell Me Baby Award winners aren’t chosen by a panel of judges. They are based on genuine reviews by Australian parents who have used the products – so you know the results can be trusted. 

To be eligible to win, a product had to have received at least 25 reviews during the voting period (February 1st 2021 to January 31st, 2022). We then crunched the numbers, looking at the star ratings our review community gave to the products – awarding the prize to the highest-rated baby products during the year.

From car seats to breast pumps, pregnancy tests to vitamins, these are the products Aussie parents genuinely recommend this year. 

And the winners are …

Best pram under $900: Edwards & Co Oscar Mx, 4.9 stars

Best pram Under $900 - Edwards & Co

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Best pram over $900: Redsbaby JIVE³ Pram, 4.8 stars

Best pram over $900 - Redsbaby

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Best baby capsule: Britax Safe-n-Sound Unity NEOS Baby Capsule, 4.6 stars

Best baby capsule - Britax Safe-n-Sound

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Best convertible car seat: Britax Safe-n-Sound Graphene Convertible Car Seat, 4.9 stars

Best convertible car seat - Britax Safe-n-Sound

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Best nappy: Huggies Ultimate Nappies, 4.7 stars

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Best nappy bag: OiOi Faux Leather Nappy Backpack, 4.9 stars

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Best nappy cream: Aromababy Barrier Balm, 4.8 stars

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Best wipes: Huggies Wipes Tub, 4.6 stars

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Best baby snack: Baby Bellies Organic Sweetcorn Round-a-bouts, 4.7 stars

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Best cereal: Bellamy’s Organic Baby Porridge 5m+, 4.5 stars

Best baby cereal - Bellamys Organic

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Best food pouch: Rafferty’s Garden Banana, Pear & Mango 4m+, 4.9 stars

Best food pouch - Raffertys Garden

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Best baby bottle: Pigeon SofTouch Bottle (PP), 4.9 stars

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Best water bottle/sippy cup: b.box Sippy Cup, 4.8 stars

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Best portable breast pump: Medela Freestyle Flex Breast Pump, 4.7 stars

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Best hospital grade pump: Spectra S2+ Hospital Grade Double Electric Breast Pump, 4.9 stars

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Best steriliser: Tommee Tippee Super-Steam Advanced Electric Steriliser, 4.5 stars

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Best steriliser bag: Medela Quick Clean Microwave Bag, 4.7 stars

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Best baby health: Flo Baby Saline Nasal Spray, 4.9 stars

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Best toothpaste: Jack N’ Jill Natural Toothpaste

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Best baby haircare: Mustela Foam Shampoo for Newborns, 4.8 stars

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Best baby moisturiser: Aveeno Baby Daily Lotion, 4.7 stars

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Best bath wash: Ego QV Baby Gentle Wash, 4.8 stars

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Best breast care: Multi-Mam Compresses, 4.9 stars

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Best mum’s vitamin and supplement: Blackmores Pregnancy & Breast-Feeding Gold, 4.7 stars

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Best lactation support: Boobie Foods Boobie Bikkies, 4.5 stars

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Best pregnancy test: First Response Early Result In-Stream Pregnancy Test, 4.7 stars

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Best play and development: Fisher-Price Deluxe Kick & Play Piano Gym, 4.9 stars

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Best baby carrier: Ergobaby Omni 360 Cool Air Mesh Baby Carrier, 4.9 stars

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Best baby lounger: Cushii, 5 stars

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Best sleeping bag/swaddle: ergoPouch Cocoon Swaddle Bag 2.5 Tog, 4.9 stars

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Baby monitor: Cubo Ai Plus Smart Baby Monitor, 4.7 stars

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a2 vs Aptamil: baby formulas compared

a2 vs Aptamil formula: what’s the difference? It’s a question many parents ask when trying to decide on a baby formula.

Tell Me Baby parents have rated baby formulas they’ve tried and shared their opinions on what has or hasn’t worked for them. Based on their baby formula reviews, we’ve compared a2 Platinum Premium Infant Formula Stage 1 vs Aptamil Gold+ 1 to help with your buying decision.

You can also take a look at our baby formula comparisons to find other highly rated products, according to other parents.

This article contains information about infant formulas. Under the WHO Code, the information presented here is free from advertising and is based on unbiased opinions from parents.

a2 vs Aptamil formula

Before we dive in, let’s talk about protein. There are two main types of protein found in cow’s milk-based baby formula (and breastmilk): whey and casein. Whey digests quickly while casein is digested more slowly. Whey dominant formulas are easier for younger babies to digest. Want to know more? Read our ultimate guide to newborn formula.

a2 Platinum Premium Infant Formula Stage 1

a2 vs aptamil formula

Features

The milk powder in this exclusive formulation contains only the naturally occurring A2 type of beta-casein protein to the exclusion of the A1 type of beta-casein protein, which may help support your baby’s natural digestion.

For more nutrition information, visit the website.

Price

$38.00

Pros

Parents say they like how easily a2 Platinum Premium Infant Formula Stage 1 formula dissolves. “No lumps are left in the bottom of the bottle like other brands,” said one reviewer.

Another reviewer said they find this product helped with their baby’s reflux.

Cons

On the other hand, some parents said this product is “not great with babies with reflux.” So it really depends on the baby.

Additionally, it’s more expensive and sometimes hard to find. “The formula itself is pricey compared to other formulas,” wrote a parent. “We had issues with availability in our area as not all stores have it.”

Example review

“We came across A2 formula on our third baby after her suffering from bad reflux. As soon as she started it settled with no further issues. Now using for our fourth baby and would recommend for use to my friends and family. Am happy to pay a little more for the great health benefits for my babies. Easy to use scoop and little lip on container to level.”

Read more a2 Platinum Premium Infant Formula Stage 1 reviews.

Aptamil Gold+ 1

a2 vs aptamil formula

Features

Price

$27.00

Pros

As far as pricing goes this brand is cheaper. Some parents said in their reviews that Aptamil Gold+ 1 was gentle on bub’s tummy.

Cons

Some parents noticed a change in their baby’s poo – but many said it was fine. “Unfortunately, he became really constipated and gassy while on it after 2 weeks,” said one mum.

Example review

“My girls were fed this in the NICU, 6 weeks premature and exclusively Formula fed. We never had ANY issues with this formula and best of all Aptamil offer discounted formula to parents of multiples. We went on to use every stage until my girls were 1, again no issues what so ever!”

Read more Aptamil Gold+ 1 reviews.

Summary

a2 vs Aptamil formula? Choosing an infant formula is a personal choice. Every baby is different, so what works for one might not work for another. If you are unsure about which formula to try, speak with your GP or another healthcare professional.

4 best silicone breast pumps

Silicone breast pumps are all the rage right now. They are discreet, there are no cords and they are perfect for pumping, or catching let-down breast milk. But which is the best silicone breast pump?

To help you figure that out, the Tell Me Baby community has rated the best silicone breast pumps they’ve tried, and they’ve shared their opinions on what has or hasn’t, worked for them. (Read all the best breast pump reviews.)

Here are 5 silicone breast pumps the Tell Me Baby community loves. Each one has a rating of at least 3.8 stars out of 5 (click through to each breast pump’s page to see its current ratings).

You can also see our breast pump comparisons to find the top-rated products and tips for buying a breast pump.

1. Haakaa Silicone Breast Pump

best silicone breast pump

A very popular breast pump in the Tell Me Baby community. The Haakaa is made from 100% food-grade silicone and is perfect for discrete and quick milk expression at home or when out and about.

As one reviewer said, “I’ve collected so much milk just by capturing my let down each feed. A definite must have!”

Read Haakaa Silicone Breast Pump reviews

2. Tommee Tippee Made for Me

Mums say the Tommee Tippee Made for Me Silicone Breast Pump has good suction and was perfect for catching their letdowns on the other side. 

Read more Tommee Tippee Made for Me Silicone Breast Pump reviews

3. NUK Jolie Manual Breast Pump

The NUK Jolie Manual Breast Pump features a soft silicone cushion that fits snugly against the nipple, perfect for expressing breastmilk. One mum said: “It was very gentle on my nipples and it was great to see how much milk I had expressed.”

Read more NUK Jolie Manual Breast Pump reviews

4. Pigeon Milk Saver Pump

Pigeon Milk Saver Pump can be used to collect breast milk or as a manual pump. As one reviewer wrote: “If trying to save milk to bottle feed your baby later this is great to use.”

best silicone breast pump

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Best baby toothpaste

In this best baby toothpaste comparison, you can find out what the Tell Me Baby community thinks are the top toothpaste on the market.

Baby toothpaste comparison chart

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$5.99
 
9

"My kids love it! It smells great with a hint of strawberry and easy taste in their mouth."

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(9)

"My kids love it! It smells great with a hint of strawberry and easy taste in their mouth."

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$2.50
 
22

"This is a great choice when transitioning towards the more normal toothpaste flavour. My son seems to love it too which is great."

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$2.50
 
(22)

"This is a great choice when transitioning towards the more normal toothpaste flavour. My son seems to love it too which is great."

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$2.00
 
99

"Our dentist recommended this toothpaste when starting our toddler on brushing her teeth."

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$2.00
 
(99)

"Our dentist recommended this toothpaste when starting our toddler on brushing her teeth."

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$13.99
 
147

"Love this product and still use it today. Not a super strong flavour so perfect for kids of all ages...especially those with autism."

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(147)

"Love this product and still use it today. Not a super strong flavour so perfect for kids of all ages...especially those with autism."

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$6.99
 
112

"We were gifted the Gaia Berry Burst probiotic toothpaste and I’m so thankful because my son likes the taste and asks for ‘more’."

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$6.99
 
(112)

"We were gifted the Gaia Berry Burst probiotic toothpaste and I’m so thankful because my son likes the taste and asks for ‘more’."

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334

"Bonjela has been a life saver for my little one. It’s easy to apply and lasts up to 3 hours."

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(334)

"Bonjela has been a life saver for my little one. It’s easy to apply and lasts up to 3 hours."

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How to choose a baby toothpaste

If you are looking for the best baby toothpaste for your baby, use the above baby toothpaste comparison chart to search by:

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Best baby lounger

In this best baby lounger comparison, you can find out what the Tell Me Baby community thinks are the top baby lounger products on the market.

Baby lounger comparison chart

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$249.00
 
42

"We were very lucky to have been gifted a Bubnest and we honestly couldn’t live without it!"

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$249.00
 
(42)

"We were very lucky to have been gifted a Bubnest and we honestly couldn’t live without it!"

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$179.00
 
223

"This is such a beautiful and great quality lounger. It is soft, light, easy to wash and a safe and comfortable spot for baby to lay on."

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$179.00
 
(223)

"This is such a beautiful and great quality lounger. It is soft, light, easy to wash and a safe and comfortable spot for baby to lay on."

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$239.00
 
46

"One of my favourite baby products. It was amazing for keeping bub safe and secure so that I could get on with things around the house."

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$239.00
 
(46)

"One of my favourite baby products. It was amazing for keeping bub safe and secure so that I could get on with things around the house."

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21

"We bought a Cocoonababy after being recommended it by a relative and I can honestly say it's worth every cent!"

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"We bought a Cocoonababy after being recommended it by a relative and I can honestly say it's worth every cent!"

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How to choose a baby lounger

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Best lactation support

In this best lactation support comparison, you can find out what the Tell Me Baby community thinks are the top lactation support products on the market.

Lactation support comparison chart

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$49.99
 
27

"I have used these for both pregnancies and well into my breastfeeding journey and love them! Helped keep me and baby healthy..."

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$49.99
 
(27)

"I have used these for both pregnancies and well into my breastfeeding journey and love them! Helped keep me and baby healthy..."

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$79.00
 
66

"I purchased Qiara with my first son when I had reoccurring mastitis and it helped so much."

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$79.00
 
(66)

"I purchased Qiara with my first son when I had reoccurring mastitis and it helped so much."

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$25.95
 
18

"They were tasty and did exactly what they claimed too but also a great quick snack for feeding mums!"

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(18)

"They were tasty and did exactly what they claimed too but also a great quick snack for feeding mums!"

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$34.95
 
51

"Trust me this works. It gives healthy immune to your baby when taken while you are pregnant."

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$34.95
 
(51)

"Trust me this works. It gives healthy immune to your baby when taken while you are pregnant."

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258

"It gives me good peace of mind to know that I have an adequate amount of all the vitamins and minerals my body needs to grow a baby or su..

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(258)

"It gives me good peace of mind to know that I have an adequate amount of all the vitamins and minerals my body needs to grow a baby or su..

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20

"When I was pregnant I tried a packet of fabfol pregnancy vitamins. They were well priced and full of the nutritional needs required in pr..

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(20)

"When I was pregnant I tried a packet of fabfol pregnancy vitamins. They were well priced and full of the nutritional needs required in pr..

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$72.99
 
383

"Love that this is pretty much everything I need for my pregnancy needs all in one tablet daily..."

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$72.99
 
(383)

"Love that this is pretty much everything I need for my pregnancy needs all in one tablet daily..."

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$25.95
 
168

"I loved how convenient these are! Finally a lactation cookie I could buy at my local pharmacy!"

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(168)

"I loved how convenient these are! Finally a lactation cookie I could buy at my local pharmacy!"

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103

"It's a great product, incorporating essential vitamins for bub and me. Certainly helps boost my mood and energy levels."

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(103)

"It's a great product, incorporating essential vitamins for bub and me. Certainly helps boost my mood and energy levels."

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How to choose a lactation support product

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Best breast care

In this best breast care comparison, you can find out what the Tell Me Baby community thinks are the top breast care products on the market.

Breast care comparison chart

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$8.99
 
324

"Highly recommend!! These absolutely saved me in the first couple weeks of breastfeeding!!"

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$8.99
 
(324)

"Highly recommend!! These absolutely saved me in the first couple weeks of breastfeeding!!"

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$15.95
 
52

"I tried a few different ointments and compresses but these were by far the absolute best!!"

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$15.95
 
(52)

"I tried a few different ointments and compresses but these were by far the absolute best!!"

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$34.49
 
494

"It seems pretty good. I haven't had cracked nipples while using it. I put it on after every breast feed."

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$34.49
 
(494)

"It seems pretty good. I haven't had cracked nipples while using it. I put it on after every breast feed."

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$32.49
 
58

"This product was an absolute life saver when I was struggling with engorgement in the early days of breastfeeding."

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$32.49
 
(58)

"This product was an absolute life saver when I was struggling with engorgement in the early days of breastfeeding."

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$12.95
 
144

"Anything GAIA I’m here for! This nipple balm is so soothing. It’s got a great texture, nice scent and the price makes it even better...

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$12.95
 
(144)

"Anything GAIA I’m here for! This nipple balm is so soothing. It’s got a great texture, nice scent and the price makes it even better...

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$15.50
 
83

"Was struggling with dry, cracked nipples at the start of my pregnancy. Used this for only a few days and all dry and cracked skin disappe..

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$15.50
 
(83)

"Was struggling with dry, cracked nipples at the start of my pregnancy. Used this for only a few days and all dry and cracked skin disappe..

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$11.00
 
115

"Worked well for dry, itchy nips during pregnancy, and for nipples that were shredded during those early weeks of breastfeeding."

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$11.00
 
(115)

"Worked well for dry, itchy nips during pregnancy, and for nipples that were shredded during those early weeks of breastfeeding."

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$12.49
 
63

"I live by these everyday. They are super soft and comfy, and you honestly can't feel it sitting in your bra once you've got it on."

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$12.49
 
(63)

"I live by these everyday. They are super soft and comfy, and you honestly can't feel it sitting in your bra once you've got it on."

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$21.95
 
29

"This was a very pleasant smelling gentle cream to apply to the nipples to prevent cracks another soreness due to my newborn breastfeeding..

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$21.95
 
(29)

"This was a very pleasant smelling gentle cream to apply to the nipples to prevent cracks another soreness due to my newborn breastfeeding..

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$14.95
 
61

"My nipples were sore, cracked and chaffed and applying this cream was instant relief."

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$14.95
 
(61)

"My nipples were sore, cracked and chaffed and applying this cream was instant relief."

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How to choose a breast care product

If you are looking for the best breast care product, use the above breast care comparison chart to search by:

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Best steriliser bag

In this best steriliser bag comparison, you can find out what the Tell Me Baby community thinks are the top steriliser bags on the market.

Steriliser bag comparison chart

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$29.35
 
136

"These are very handy and quick and easy to use. They were great to use when travelling as they were compact and didn’t take up much spa..

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$29.35
 
(136)

"These are very handy and quick and easy to use. They were great to use when travelling as they were compact and didn’t take up much spa..

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$13.99
 
15

"These are absolutely excellent for on the go! I constantly keep one in my nappy bag and one in my car instead of lugging my giant electri..

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$13.99
 
(15)

"These are absolutely excellent for on the go! I constantly keep one in my nappy bag and one in my car instead of lugging my giant electri..

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$16.95
 
25

"These bags are super quick and easy to use. There is no set up or pack down time and they don't take up a huge amount of space in the cup..

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$16.95
 
(25)

"These bags are super quick and easy to use. There is no set up or pack down time and they don't take up a huge amount of space in the cup..

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How to choose a steriliser bag

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Mum’s genius strategy for visitors after having a baby

There are two types of visitors after you have a baby. The ones who want to hold your little one so you can do housework, and ones who want to do the housework for you so you can hold your baby.  

While there’s nothing wrong with either type of visitor (it very much depends on the mum and how she’s recovering), I would have preferred the latter. 

For me, those first weeks were an emotional rollercoaster. Breastfeeding was one of the hardest things I’d ever tried to do, and it wasn’t something I was comfortable doing in front of other people. Despite my feelings, I said yes when I wanted to say no. And I smiled and handed over my baby, even though I had that part totally covered.

In the end, I was completely overwhelmed.

I’ve since learned that setting boundaries postpartum – and sticking to them – would have made a huge difference for me.

This is what I wish I did instead.

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Go team!

Recently, a friend sent me an Instagram post from Kelsi, a mum who specialises in postpartum care. The post outlines the boundaries she recommends mums set postpartum. It involves a three-team approach for visitors – and I couldn’t love it more. 

Team 1

First of all, she likes to group her visitors into teams of three. Team one covers weeks 0-3 postpartum, and as Kelsi writes, “These are the people who come and provide postpartum support. They are not guests, they are ‘staff’.

“This can be a family member, dear friend, or a postpartum doula who brings food is prepared to do laundry and tidy up the home. Kitchen and all. They play with older kids and walk the dog.”

The only expectation these people have is to look after mum, and not hold the baby (unless mum asks them to).

“Choose these people wisely,” she says. “They are entering a sacred space where the birth energy is still very much alive and the birthing person is open and vulnerable, physically and emotionally.”

Team two

This team comes in weeks 3-6 postpartum. These are the people who you want to come and hold your baby.

“These are the people who will only ask about baby, everything from how they are sleeping to pooping, and will most likely not ask about your birth or how you are,” she writes, adding, “make sure you feel emotionally ready to invite these people into your home.”

Team 3

Last by not least is team three. These visitors can come after week six (or when you’re ready to leave your bubble).

“These are the people who will get you out of the house, playdates, cafe meetups, postnatal yoga,” says Kelsi.

“These are the people you will start seeing when you feel ready to leave your postpartum cocoon, have established and feel comfortable with feeding and a crying baby in public 💕”

Don’t get me wrong, I was excited for everyone to meet my baby, but there was also a lot of healing and adjusting happening (for all of us), and I wanted it to take place inside my safe little bubble with my baby and my partner. 

Next time, (if I’m lucky enough), I will do things differently, and Kelsi’s approach seems like a good place to start.